16 Ways to Bust Stress

Stress is a part of everyday life. Without it we would never get off the couch, never worry about our work efforts, what our kids are up to, never put out the fire or avoid the car that veers into our lane!

The degree of stress that we encounter on a constant basis in modern society, however, has reached epidemic proportions.

“Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness.” ~Richard Carlson

I love the quote above, because we often do fall into the trap of stressing out and just generally driving ourselves crazy.

But it’s important to remember that stress triggers the “fight-or-flight” response. The surge of adrenaline and the slowing down of other basic functions provides us with the instant energy we need to run from a predator or battle an attacker.

This survival response comes with side effects though. Over time, that extra energy and alertness comes with altered hormone levels, heightened blood sugar, depleted nutrients and lowered neurotransmitters.

Over time, our bodies adapt to invoke that same response with smaller and smaller triggers.

“Fight or flight” is the normal operating mode for many of us, rather than the true emergency survival mechanism it was meant to be. We rarely work off that energy, take restorative actions or release ourselves from that state of mind.

Chronic stress affects every bodily system. It suppresses the immune system, slows metabolism and cell regeneration, makes airways reactive and creates muscle tension. It is estimated that 90% of doctor visits can be traced back to stress.

Decrease Stress in your Life

Stress can be linked to weight gain, heart disease and depression. It increases the risk of diabetes, hypertension, arthritis and osteoporosis.

Stress impairs cognitive function over time, reducing creativity, memory and problem-solving skills.

Headaches, sexual dysfunction, irritability, problems sleeping and addictive behaviors are often stress-related.

The degree of stress we experience on a daily basis might be a cultural norm but personal priorities, personal choices and our purposeful reactions to stress can limit the negative health effects of stress.

Pick a few of these suggestions below to reduce stress in your life and promote health and healing in your body.

  1. Spiritual Triathlon. This is my personal method for keeping my focus throughout the day. Every morning when I wake up I spend 5 minutes saying all that I am grateful for, 5 minutes in prayer and 5 minutes reading my Bible or something inspirational.
  2. Schedule relaxation. Write it down in your planner and stick to it. Make time at least once a week to do something you love–something that refreshes you. Maybe that’s a game of tennis, spending an hour alone with a good book or taking a yoga class.
  3. Pour yourself a cup. Many varieties of hot tea have calming effects on the body and can help lower blood pressure. Try green or black tea or herbal teas with chamomile.
  4. Take a deep breath. Try deep breathing for a few minutes every day. Tighten and release muscles. Hum to release nitric oxide and improve blood pressure.
  5. Just say “No.” I promise it’s ok! Don’t spread yourself too thin or you won’t be able to give 100% of your efforts to any of the tasks you attempt. Your value does not depend upon how much you do for others at the expense of your own time, relationships and health.
  6. Expel excess adrenaline. Before, during and after stressful situations, walk briskly for 5 minutes, run up a flight of stairs, do backward pushups on your chair, or do 5 minutes of deep breathing. A short burst of physical activity can expel anxiety and give you clarity and calm.
  7. Ask yourself why. The next time you’re racing around trying to accomplish too many things in too short a time, ask yourself why you’re doing it, who it really serves, what belief its based on, whether this feeling is really what you want, whether this is a value or principle you want to base your life on. “Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.” ~Corrie Ten Boom
  8. Nix the caffeine, nicotine and alcohol. Don’t add to nervous energy with stimulants and don’t mask stress with alcohol. The long-term effects compound the negative effects of stress.
  9. Exercise regularly. Regular exercise helps expel built-up tension, stress hormones and clears the mind. Exercise helps to release endorphins, the brain’s natural feel-good chemicals. I recommend Burst Training for the most health benefits.
  10. Sleep. Staying up late to get more done robs you of your total productivity. It dulls your mind, increases stress, promotes weight gain and contributes to mood swings.
  11. Use your senses. Find colors that soothe you, wear fabrics that please you. Take a scented bath, play music you love. Paint, get a massage, or take a walk in the woods. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away.” ~Hilary Cooper
  12. Connect with others. Making time for social connection is very important and restorative. Social connection is what makes us a part of something larger than ourselves and our worries. It gives us perspective.
  13. Serve someone else. Related to connecting with others, try volunteering at a soup kitchen, making meals for parents with a newborn baby or helping with home repairs for an elderly neighbor. Remind yourself that it’s not always all about you. “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ~Wayne Dwyer
  14. Be prepared. You can combat alarmist or catastrophic thinking by being prepared. Keep a change of clothes in the car, create an emergency fund for car repairs, have an alternative proposal in mind at work.
  15. Make a vision board. Write down your goals and post them on a board where it can be seen every day. What do you want to accomplish? Who do you want to become? Print out pictures to visually remind yourself of what is most important to you. “Life is a journey, not a destination.” ~Rumi
  16. Share responsibility. Delegating really is an important skill. Instead of complaining about how much you have to accomplish, teach your kids to cook, share the credit with a co-worker, or work out sports shuttling with another parent.

I’d love to hear your ideas and stress-busting techniques as well. Feel free to share them below.

Josh Axe

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4 comments so far - add yours!

  1. Jonathan Martin says:

    <p>Keeping a &quot;Stress&quot; journal. Every time you feel stressed, worried or frustrated about something – you write it down. What you do with that book later is up to you. You can read it out loud, you can email it to a friend, or even burn the pages 1 by 1. The whole idea is for you to get the stress OUT of your system. </p><p>I know this one might sound a little rough or crazy, but boxing (or just hitting a pillow or something) can help too. :)</p><p>I personally love me some Yoga! I highly recommend it. Saturday mornings at 9… Yeah!</p><p>Good stuff! I love the quotes used above – I’ll have to steal those. <br/>Thanks</p>

  2. <p>I love Jonathan’s suggestion of a stress journal. I used to write out the things that were too big, complicated, or frustrating for me on post-it notes. Before bed I would put them in a worry box &amp; ask the angels to please handle these for me while I slept.</p><p>Sometimes I’ll put on some good music and jump on my rebounder for a couple of songs.</p>

  3. Ted Schempp says:

    <p>Keeping a &quot;Journal&quot; is great, but I suggest expanding it beyond being used just to &quot;get the stress out.&quot; Try using it as a means of writing letters to God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit. (I rotate, addrssing each one, every three days.) It’s great to think of The Bible as &quot;God’s Love Letter to Us&quot; because it is and of course so much more, but think about it; He often doesn’t get much or any mail from us…..His kids! Just think how much it brightens God’s day or night, when He knows that we’re writing to Him; pouring out our hearts, souls and minds to Him in joy, sorrow or even in times of intense stress. He wants to hear from us! He wants to know about all &quot;the stuff&quot; we’re going through. And yes, it’s totally cool to &quot;shred&quot; pages which with time may be embarassing or uncomfortable to keep.</p><p> We can also ask Him about &quot;The Big Picture of our lives&quot; especially if we don’t exactly have real peace about the direction or lack of direction in which we’re going. Try asking God, &quot;Father, when I was being formed in my mom’s womb, what plans did You have for me? Have I fulfilled some of those? Any of those? Have I gotten off track and strayed quite a ways from the direction that You know will make me the most fulfilled? We need to believe and realize that He really is our Saviour and our very best friend. (John 15:15) He can handle everything that we can’t, and of course, help us handle the stuff we need to face.</p><p> Here’s one more &quot;quiet time&quot; suggestion. If you’ve never owned one, consider buying a &quot;One Year Bible&quot;, preferably one in hard- back, because if you’re consistent with this wonderful tool, a paperback will only last a few years. To guard against legalism, try thinking of taking in a daily dose of God’s Word, as essential as food, water and vitamins. (Hint: the best way to get your regular vitamins, is through healthy food, and not pills or gel caps.) I find that if I get too far behind with my daily dose, I really miss it and feel weak as a result. But the key for me is that God’s given me a real &quot;love for His Word&quot; and it’s a joy not a burden to &quot;bathe in it.&quot;</p><p> I hope these suggestions are helpful. Blessings, Ted</p>

  4. Gail says:

    <p>Great article Dr. Josh. </p><p>I like tai chi…but my very favorite form of stress busting is to laugh. I’ve learned to not take myself so seriously, this was/is a biggie for me sometimes. Laughter is one of the best stress busters I’ve found.</p>

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